Why Don’t The Trucks Want Me?

Getting on this new sleep schedule is hard work! I am so tired in the mornings! I met Prachit who drove Krista and me to the orphanage. I have no idea why she is driving us, but I am NOT complaining as I do not miss the yellow bus!

The kids seemed really cranky today as well, but I think a lot of them were tired as they fell RIGHT to sleep at nap time! It was the same story (hold the crying ones and change diapers) although today even holding them didn’t seem to be enough to get them to stop crying!

I enjoyed watching Barney travel around the world! They have a nice TV that was donated and they always play this same sing-along (the songs go through my head every night) but today was different and we got to watch Barney go to Paris and Barcelona!

I gave another bath today (which I actually love doing) and I had one of the older boys (maybe they saw me with the baby yesterday, ha). He could sit on his own which was great and they are all pretty good during baths! But, above the huge sink I saw a MILLION ants! It brought me back to the days of the Vietnam soup kitchen! It’s not like the orphanage is dirty or anything but I am going to go buy them some Raid because it is GROSS!

I left at lunch time and headed back to the hostel for PB&J and to rest a bit! I am feeling MUCH better and probably could have done a whole day but I am doing the Eco Tour this weekend and want to make sure I am feeling well!

I had signed up for the Eco Tour for the last 3 days before I leave Chiang Mai but Prachit thought I should do it over the weekend so I didn’t have to miss volunteering and I said that was fine. I really don’t know WHAT to expect. There is an itinerary online but Prachit explained something similar but not the same so I guess I will just show up and see! I am pretty sure the website said it was rafting and trekking, working with elephants, cooking Thai food and visiting a waterfall but then Prachit told me it was a zip line as well, so who knows!

I am excited, but I think if I had known I was already going to be zip lining and hanging out with elephants I wouldn’t have signed up for it. Ugh, I sound like I am complaining, poor me I have to spend a weekend in rural Thailand, HA! I am NOT at all, but I think it is just an elephant ride (and I was already an elephant owner for a day!) and NOTHING could beat the zip line with Mom and Lorna! But hopefully it will be a good weekend!

So with all that being said I was able to rest (and nap) this afternoon before heading out. I wanted to check out one of the two malls they have and I also read on Thursday/Friday nights they have a market. I knew I could take a red truck so I headed out to the main road to try and flag one down. I STILL don’t know WHAT I am doing wrong but they would not stop! I feel so unwanted! BUT I think one guy was trying to tell me I needed to go ahead and get him AT a stop! I don’t understand these things..they aren’t busses with set stops but they aren’t taxis that pick you up! I finally cornered one at the light and hopped in!

The mall was just okay but it did have a grocery store and my cereal was on sale so I picked up some of that! I had dinner at the Sizzler (woo hoo Western food) and checked out the market, but was NOT impressed!

It was dark out and they didn’t have lights so if you saw something you thought you might like they held up a flashlight! Ha! I also had to pee really bad so I caught a red truck (this one was stopped so it was easy) and headed back to shower and pack!

I won’t be bringing my laptop with me this weekend so you’ll have a few days off and hopefully when I return I will be full of new stories and adventures!

Hugs and kisses from trucks that don’t want me!

How Do I Get The Yellow Truck To STOP!?

I actually slept somewhat good last night which is promising as I want to get back on a normal sleeping schedule! I had my breakfast, checked my email and headed downstairs!

My original plan was to sleep in a bit this morning, drop off my laundry, walk to the grocery store and go to the orphanage in the afternoon. But last night Prachit had emailed me saying she would pick us up at 9:00am. So I decided I would do the morning and have the afternoon to rest and get some errands done.

After waiting downstairs until 9:15am I finally called her --- but no answer --- so I also sent her a text. I decided I would just take the truck (no big deal) but then realized I didn’t have my sunglasses (again not a HUGE deal..this makes me sound like a diva..ok ok I am BUT I do get a headache from squinting) so I came back upstairs. I then realized that by the time I got to the orphanage it would be just about time to leave! So I decided I would just stick to my original plan and go in the afternoon!

My only guess was that I had told Krista I would meet her at the orphanage in the afternoon, so maybe she and Prachit met downstairs earlier and left, thinking I wasn’t going!

I went and dropped off my laundry so I would have clean clothes this weekend and then walked to the grocery store. I am not positive, but this may be my favorite grocery store yet. It is big, clean, has AC (all things to look for in a good grocery store) AND plays classical music so I can relax while grocery shopping. I picked up some snacks for this weekend (since I will only be eating Thai food) and also some snacks for the kids (I feel bad I am only doing half days so will hopefully make up for it with some goodies!)

I had my lunch (half of PB&J) and I was off! Now here is the scoop..I walk about 10 minutes straight down my road to catch the yellow truck. Once I get on the yellow truck it drives back up the same street and turns right before my hostel. So I thought, instead of wasting time walking all the way down, to just come back, why don’t I catch it closer to me. I don’t mind the walk but I am all about efficiently using my time, so I figured I might as well walk in the direction of where I need to go! I thought this was a really good idea, but I was proven wrong.

It took longer than I expected for the first yellow truck to come by and when it did I waved him down, but he simply waved back! I was so offended! Ha! This happened about 5 more times (yes I kept track) before I decided I was clearly missing something! I obviously was not worth them picking me up (hey I WAS worth 15 baht!) At one point a red one pulled over (I didn’t even wave him over) and I wanted to say “you are not going where I need to go” but I showed him my paper, he asked how much, I said 15 baht and he laughed as he drove away.

I walked back to find my man waiting at the table and showed him my card as he pointed to the truck I needed to be on. I wish I spoke Thai so I could ask him why nobody picked me up! But, I was thinking about it, and I realized we never stop until we get to the “halfwayish” mark where we stop for 10 minutes. So maybe that’s the first stop? I guess I will never know!

The kids seemed awfully cranky today and it was so hot in the room. I took a baby outside for a while (this was the only way he would stop crying) and there was a group of students from Chiang Mai University so there were lots of things to watch! They did a puppet show and I THINK it was the three little bears, although the puppets didn’t look like bears but they had three difference houses so that was my only guess! We stayed outside until it started pouring (I think that’s why it was so muggy) and at 4:30 Prachit picked us up!

I tried to ask what had happened this morning but since English isn’t either of their mother tongues I didn’t really understand and it wasn’t a big deal!

I came back to rest for a little bit before going out for dinner. I was craving pasta and headed to an Italian place near the markets. I spent a little bit of time looking around the market and I did buy a few more gifts AND something for myself (and my mom). It is a black and white (she likes black and white) bag with flowers on it! I think it’s pretty!

I came back very tired and after a shower I was able to skype both my mom and Kate! Oh how I love skype! Also, I added pictures and videos. Like always..I will probably delete the videos in a few days and upload new ones so check those out first!

Hugs and kisses from the yellow trucks that don’t want me!

Slippery Babies!

When I woke up this morning I was able to have a skype date with Sarah! Woohoo skype! I then got ready and met Prachit and Krista and we headed off to the orphanage! Since Prachit had another meeting at the elephant camp (I have no clue what goes on up there! Ha) she said she would drop us off at the orphanage and pick us up at 4:30pm. I told her I probably was going to leave around lunch time since I didn’t think I could handle a full day (hey I could barely handle it when I was feeling FINE)!

I think this weekend I am going to do my Eco Tour so I am really excited! When I had signed up for Thailand I had also signed up for a 3 day Eco Tour (elephants, zip lining, hiking, etc.) I didn’t realize Mom and Lorna were going to be coming over and we would do most of that, but I am still excited to do it!

I thought it was set in stone for my last 3 days in Chiang Mai but Prachit thought I should do it over the weekend (I didn’t realize it was that flexible) so this weekend it is! That is another reason why I am trying to get enough rest this week so I feel 100% better to go away for the weekend!

It seems like a lot of the kids weren’t feeling too hot today. They were cranky, hot and all had runny noses! So hopefully my immune system is back in action in case something is going around!

After feeding, a lot of the kids get baths and I gave the first one by myself today! I was thinking, I don’t think I have ever given a “baby” a bath! Scott, I probably helped out when you were little, but in all my years of babysitting I have never been asked to bathe a baby (for good reason). So anyway I had a little cutie, but the problem was he couldn’t hold himself up and they didn’t have those blue plastic things I used to be bathed in! They just had a big sink with a hose (warm water which is more than I get here, ha!) So I kind of held him with one hand and washed/rinsed him with the other, which was all fine and well until he got all soapy..and SLIPPERY! Oh I thought I was going to kill the kid. Luckily he was a pretty good sport but he was sliding all over the place and I couldn’t really hold him, ha it was funny! But, he is clean..and still alive, so I consider it a job well done!

Krista and I then helped fold their clothes and diapers and put them away, along with all the other towels, sheets, etc. This orphanage is definitely well stocked and they have PLENTLY of clothes, towels and sheets! I was thinking, however, I might try and pick up some baby lotion (after their baths they have lotion but I was noticing it was all out) and they also have Vic’s Vapor rub (for when the kids have coughs) and I was noticing that was out too so I might do some shopping! They also have plenty of toys but I was thinking of trying to find some “learning” toys for the older ones! By that I mean maybe something with shapes and blocks or anything to stimulate their minds!

I came back during the lunch break and had my own PB&J! I am so happy my stomach is able to eat now! I couldn’t really tell you what I did for the majority of the afternoon but it was so nice just to rest and relax!

By late afternoon I headed out. It was sort of raining, but not hard enough that I REALLY needed an umbrella! I walked around some of the shops and watched the night market vendors set up. Some of them spend what seems like hours getting themselves set up so it is crazy to think it is worth it for them!

I had chicken fingers and French fries at an Irish Pub (I know, I know) but it was so nice to have some yummy comfort food!

I then ended up doing a little shopping (which I still find exhausting). But if I just look for one thing a night it doesn’t seem as bad! I wanted to get myself a little pillow (I think it’s 18x18) and I see them (along with table runners, etc) all over the place so I picked up a cute one and called it a night!

Hugs and kisses from a child that probably NEVER wants another bath from me!

The Sun? What’s that again?

Prachit, my coordinator, emailed me last night and said that Krista, the new volunteer had arrived. Prachit said that she had to go to the elephant camp this morning but would pick us up at 1:00pm if that was ok. I told her that was great as I was only planning on doing a half day anyway.

I woke up feeling better, although still tired and just blah. BUT I think my stomach is finally back to normal..WAHOOO! I had a little cereal for breakfast and a half of PB&J for lunch before meeting Krista and Prachit.

Krista is 33 and is from Holland. She works for a software company that was able to give her 6 weeks to visit Thailand (4 of which will be for volunteering). She has never been to Thailand before but has done a fair amount of traveling!

Prachit drove us to the orphanage, which was GREAT but I thought she would show Krista how to use the public transportation. I was NOT complaining because I enjoyed the AC and comfort of her truck (which actually isn’t that comfortable but it’s all relative).

We arrived at the orphanage while the kids were still sleeping (well, crying) and I soon questioned whether or not I was ready for this. It was hot and the sound of a LOT of babies crying was giving me a headache! But, it was great to be out again as I had almost forgotten what the sun felt like.

We spent the afternoon playing with the kids which was fun as always, but I still don’t feel so hot. I felt bad because I felt like I was only “half” there, but I did the best I could to comfort the crying ones and change diapers.

We DID get to celebrate birthdays though which was fun! We took the older kids to the main dining hall to celebrate about 4 birthdays. I THINK they were celebrating the birthdays for January but I am not sure. It was great as they had a cake with candles and presents for the kids. I couldn’t believe how much food we fed them, but I was happy they got to enjoy it.

I didn’t plan on staying for long but since Prachit brought us there and it was Krista’s first day I felt weird leaving, so we didn’t end up leaving until around 5:00pm. It wasn’t even a full day but I was beyond exhausted so I think tomorrow I will just do a few hours as well.

I was so tired when I got back (I didn’t even DO that much) and I couldn’t wait to get comfy in my bed. I was a bum again and ordered take out (I have started a bad habit) haha! I know once I feel better I will go out again but there is such comfort in NOT having to leave and be able to eat in my PJ’s by myself!

I was so excited to be feeling better as it meant I got to have skype dates! I got to talk to my aunt, Manda and my mom! It really is SO nice being able to SEE people and hear their voices, especially after being sick!

Hugs and kisses from an out and about Julie.

Dear Stomach, We Might Be Able To Be Friends Again. Love, Julie

I could not fall asleep last night (sound familiar) but it probably didn’t help that I have been sleeping for the past three days!

I woke up around 11:00am and made myself get up since I need to get back into SOME type of schedule! I had made it through the night without any “issues” woo hoo! I honestly am not really sure what I did most of the day. I did clean my room a bit, I showered (cold of course) and I guess that’s it!

I am still not feeling GREAT, but I am a lot better! My stomach doesn’t feel normal and I am just really tired and feel weak (you know when you stand up too fast and you go “woah!”..it’s like that!)

I did venture out this afternoon and got some pizza and ginger ale and finished watching “Grumpy Old Men” and laughed a lot which is always good when you are sick!

My BIG plan for today was to go to church. Now, I REALLY have tried every weekend to go to church, which seems like a lie because I honestly haven’t been that much. I guess I didn’t realize HOW busy I have been! But, I was excited about going to church today AND was hoping I would feel up to it!

The church isn’t too far from my hostel (good) but they are doing renovations so they are holding services at a different building (bad). I knew it was probably walkable but seeing as I hadn’t been “out” in about 3 days and with the advice from my mommy I decided to take a tuk-tuk. Now, I do NOT like having to find a ride when I am sick and am NOT willing to walk. I knew I was going to get ripped off and I knew I was too tired to even bother trying to bargain. Luckily I made it to the church without any problems and I was pleasantly surprised! It is a nondenominational church so reminded me a lot of my church at home. There were probably about 300 people there (mostly Westerners) and I knew about 70% of the songs! I wish I was feeling a BIT better but I am excited to go back because I enjoyed it so much even though I was sick!

I did make the walk back (I did NOT want to get ripped off again and figured it would be good for me to walk) and it wasn’t THAT bad but I was EXHUASTED after it all! That is enough adventure for one day!

Hugs and kisses from my (hopefully) happy tummy!

I Hate the Flu in America and I Hate it Even MORE in Thailand!

This blog might be a little bit confusing because I am writing it days later (which I try never to do). So I will start off by talking about my day on Thursday.

I did not sleep well (surprise surprise) but I made myself get up. My original plan was to go for a run in the morning for two reasons. One, I would be getting up early, which would hopefully mean I would be tired enough to sleep at night and two; I would be getting fresh air and exercise!

I decided a run wasn’t the best idea. For some reason I was very nauseous, I was exhausted from not sleeping well and still sore (I am such a baby I know) so I decided I would walk instead. I was still getting up early and getting fresh air and a bit of exercise so I figured it was ok. I also decided I would stop at a grocery store since it was along my route.

It is nice and cold in the morning which is wonderful compared to exercising in Ho Chi Minh City. I found my way to the grocery store but realized I had about 15 minutes until it opened AND it looked like a good one so I thought it would be worth the wait. They did have a little bakery/café open next store and since I had 15 minutes to kill I figured I would treat myself to pancakes (I was hungry anyway).

I made my way to the grocery store and of course I loved it! I just love seeing what kinds of things they have. Things that in the U.S. I would pass by without thinking about, but here it is like..Oh yeah I forgot about those! I also like looking at the prices just to see if I would pay that back in the States. I lead a sad life..obsessed with grocery stores!

On my walk back I also found a bookstore that has good books for only $3 so I picked up a few since I have missed reading!

I made my way to the orphanage, although the bus seemed extra bad today because my tummy was rolling all around! Luckily, he didn’t forget my stop which is always a pleasant surprise these days!

I had a good couple of hours with the kids, but I knew I was NOT feeling well! My stomach was all over the place and the smell of diapers and babies spitting up was NOT helping. Every time a kid touched me it hurt and I knew I needed to get out of there.

I left and again the bus ride back was not enjoyable (not that it ever is). I figured I might be hungry and/or dehydrated so I had some PB&J and a pedialyte. But, afterwards I only felt worse. I felt like I could barely keep my food down, I was shaky, had the chills and my whole body ached! Ugh! I think I first fell asleep around 3:00pmish, woke up at 5:00pm and again at 7:00pm feeling AWFUL! I was shaking and when I had the AC off it was way too hot and when I had it on it hurt my body, ugh!

I didn’t even want to THINK about eating or checking email and that’s when I KNEW I was sick! At that point I hadn’t thrown up, but I just felt so awful! At one point I called my mommy (the best person to vent too) and spent the rest of the night in and out of sleep. I only threw up once (wahoo) and afterward I took some Pepto and Advil. I also had a black tongue, which luckily I knew NOT to freak out about! When I went to Israel I took two Peptos with every meal (to help from getting sick, and it worked) but one morning I woke up with a black tongue! I was FREAKING out expecting to die any second when my mom kindly said how she forgot to tell me that was a side effect of taking so many Pepto! Luckily, I didn’t have to learn that lesson here, by myself, thinking I was about to die! I remember at one point waking up drenched in sweat (gross I know) but I was happy because that meant my fever was breaking!

At 2:00am I felt a BIT better to at least take out my contacts and as you contact wearers know there is NOTHING worse than sticky contacts! I woke up a few more times and finally at 11:00am Friday I woke up and thought I should get out of bed!

It sort of made me laugh that all week I have been complaining about not sleeping, so my body decided sleeping for 20 hours would be a good thing to do! I am also thankful that this is really the first time I have felt THAT sick which isn’t too bad for 3 months away from home. Every winter season my immune system likes to take a break and hit me with a sinus and/or ear infection that takes at least two rounds of antibiotics to cure, so I have been trying to be very careful not to let myself get run down (hence why sometimes I am a volunteer skipper) and I am honestly really happy that it has taken me this long to get sick! I am also happy that I only got sick near the end of my trip (I kept looking at a countdown calendar I have that says “21 days until home”) and I had a great place to be sick (AC, no ants crawling on me, etc.)

I was feeling a bit better, enough to clean up the pigsty I call my room (it really was gross) AND I took a shower (a cold one of course, not ok). I then decided I should get out of my room so thought I would go drop off my laundry.

I was craving Pizza Hut breadsticks and while they are a bit garlicy I figured they were enough of a comfort food that I would be ok. It felt good to get out, although after my lunch the walk back (5 minutes maybe) seemed to take forever and I was so happy to see my bed again.

The rest of the afternoon (and night) was a blur because although I gave the flu the boot (yay for only 24 hour flu) I still felt AWFUL! Granted I didn’t have the chills or shaking, but my stomach not only wanted to throw everything up but I also had the WORST stomach pains! I spent most of my time in and out of sleep (it was really the only thing I could do) and I was able to skype Mom and Dad to complain about how yucky I felt! I was happy to have gotten rid of the flu (shaking, chills, fever, etc.) but it had been a while since my stomach had HURT so much! I tried eating a bit (I really hadn’t eaten much all day) but that didn’t go over to well as my digestive system HATED me. I switched from Pepto to Imodium (oh the joys of modern medicine) and tried to get some sleep.

I woke up on Saturday morning and didn’t feel AS bad, but still not great. After a couple more rounds of Imodium I was starting to feel a bit better and by mid afternoon I made myself go pick up my laundry.

I hated the heat, I hated the noise, and I hated the sun, haha! I was so happy to be back from my five minute walk! I was glad to not be having digestive problems (at this point it was Saturday afternoon) but I was not feeling like I was able to go back to civilization!

My stomach still hurt a lot but I was able to keep down saltines AND ginger ale and I was very hungry! So, I did something I haven’t done in a long time..I ORDERED OUT! Can you believe it? I had read about this place that will pick up for a lot of restaurants in Chiang Mai (I think they used to have something like this in Portsmouth). I knew I wanted to try it before I left, so I figured now was as good a time as any. I ordered scrambled eggs (I was craving them), pancakes and French toast! I ended up taking a bite of each and while I hated the thought of wasting all that food it was so nice to have REAL food! And delivery! I had forgotten what Styrofoam to-go boxes looked like!

I was nervous about how my stomach was going to handle the foreignness of solid, actual food, BUT so far (it’s about 10:00pm Saturday night) so good! So please, keep your fingers crossed and say your prayers..I am going stiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiir crazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzy!

Oh and also..since I have done nothing but lay in bed for the past three days, I updated some pictures! There are still more for my trip with Mom and Lorna coming..as well as videos..so enjoy!

Hugs and kisses from the soon to be healthy Julie Marie Wilson!

Monks!

I had a decent night sleep and was thinking about exercising this morning. I actually set my alarm and did get up and started to get ready, but my body was telling me otherwise. Kudos to those of you who have multiple young ones, I don’t know how you do it!

I decided to skip out on exercise since my body was hurting anyway AND I knew I was going to be spending some time walking around this morning.

I had read about this market (not really touristy, mostly locals) that I wanted to check out. Last night I went, but by 5:00pm everything closes down, so I knew I would have to go during the day. Since I enjoy the afternoons better at the orphanage I decided I would go to the market in the morning and spend my afternoon at the orphanage.

The market definitely wasn’t touristy and I got stared at a lot! I had forgotten what that felt like (luckily it hasn’t happen recently) but I will NOT miss that when I go home! I also could tell the market wasn’t touristy because it was, well, gross. It was a mixture of clothes and food, and by food I mean meat left out in the open and FISH! Ugh, nothing is worse than a hot market and the smell of FISH! Needless to say I didn’t spend much time there but explored some of the other places!

I was on the hunt for a KNIFE and had no idea how hard it would be to find one! I can’t make PB&J without a knife and I found spoons and forks but no knife! So I knew I couldn’t have that for lunch today, but hopefully I will find one soon!

I came back picked up my laundry and took a well needed shower to get off the smell of fish (gross) and it was the coldest one YET (awful!)

Since I didn’t have a knife I was forced to eat out again and since I didn’t have a ton of time I chose the Coffee Bug. I got the fruit again and a coffee cake, it was ok but if I can help it I don’t think I will go back!

I made my way to the bus stop and was a bit confused as to WHO I should show my card to! There are always a couple of guys hanging around but I handed it to the guy AT the desk. I have no idea what his job is..I can’t imagine it’s just to sit there and tell people which yellow truck they should get on, but hey it’s Thailand. He pointed and off we went!

Since I am at the beginning of the line it’s just me for a while, until we stop at that one place for a bit and then everyone hops on. I stick close to the back to get some fresh air but oh man I hate those trucks!

I kept my eyes peeled and it’s a good thing I did because I saw the Vieng Ping Children’s home come and go as we passed it at about 50mph. I pressed the button and luckily the guy pulled over and let me off! I think sometimes if my driver is standing by the guy I hand my card to he knows, but I guess if not I need to press the button. So maybe this thing IS more like a taxi than a bus because (minus that one stop) I don’t think we stop anywhere else unless someone needs to get on or off. It sorta makes me laugh because it’s so different from the public transportation in other countries.

I remember in Vietnam we were on the bus (which does NOT stop for anything) and Khaly was translating that the bus driver and ticket taker were giving this girl a hard time because she missed “the stop” but needed to get off and he wouldn’t let her (he COULD have pulled over I think..maybe he was being a jerk) but anyway he commented that this was a bus not a taxi!

ANYWAY luckily I didn’t have to walk TOO far to get back to the orphanage. I was a little bit early for the afternoon shift but as I got close to the baby house I could already hear them crying! Both Sally and Mahena were there which made it nice to talk to people besides the babies (yesterday I was asking one baby where I should go to dinner, etc.)

It was the typical afternoon of trying to decide which crying baby I should hold. I ended up getting stuck (well not STUCK but) with one who I could NOT put down (I had to be standing or he would cry!) Holy moly was I sore! Mom and Dad you do NOT have to worry as I will not be having kids for a while!!!

It was another good, crazy, tiring time and I left to come back to go to the Monk Chat! I had read about a temple where you could go chat with monks. They would practice their English and I could learn about..well..anything!

I am a blonde, a TRUE blonde and let me tell you why! So I bought those new orphanage “appropriate” pants the other night and they have been working out okay. They are grey (goes with anything) and fit pretty well, except for the waist! They have a drawstring but it is just one big piece of string, so the first time I tied them they were falling down ALL day! I then had to take a fair amount of time to pull them really tight, attempt a knot and then pull the knot really close (if that makes any sense). I had to REALLY plan ahead when I had to pee as it would take at LEAST five minutes to undo the knot. So anyway, I just had to pee and I am writing this and was a bit frustrated because it was taking so long and my fingers were hurting. All of a sudden, a light bulb went off..why don’t I cut the string so I can make it like a NORMAL drawstring! Now I LOVE these pants..sometimes I just amaze myself! (Mom and Dad please don’t be embarrassed by me..I did figure it out..sometimes it just takes me a bit longer, HA!)

I started walking to try and find a tuk-tuk and of COURSE I had to walk for what felt like miles before I saw one (why do they always hunt me down when I am 2 minutes from the hostel!)

I showed him where I wanted to go and he told me 80 baht which was probably reasonable for the distance, but I only wanted to pay around 50 baht so I told him 40 baht. He sort of laughed and then told me (well I figured out) I should take the red truck for 40 baht. And THEN (I still can’t believe it) he helped me flag them down! The first one wasn’t going there but the second one was. I wanted to ask him why he was so nice and helping me! I have learned that if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is and should be avoided in Asia. BUT I figured I was in a truck full of people, it was still light out and I felt comfortable enough so I went with it! Before I knew it he was dropping me off at the temple for 40 baht. I really will never know why that man was so kind to help me, but it was great!

I made my way to the monk chat and it was pretty crowded. After signing in I was put at a table with THREE monks! I felt so, weird! I was thinking it was one-on-one and then another one sat down so it was me and FOUR monks! At one point there were SIX of them at my table but I think maybe there were so many because it wasn’t so busy? It was kind of funny but a little much! I can’t remember EVERYTHING we talked about, but I learned a little bit more about Buddhism. Most of the monks were from Burma and you can be a monk and then leave if you want (you leave when you are no longer happy being a monk). They get up at 5:00am and spend their day in meditation (there is no set time..) and they all go to university (they study 10 subjects). Their robe colors have no meaning besides the fact they like it and they believe in cause and effect. Mom, I did explain how you accidentally bumped into a monk on the crowded ferry and they said that was ok because the monk didn’t intentionally touch you (they talked a lot about intentions). The monk just has to confess to the higher monk but it doesn’t sound like that’s a big deal. They can’t eat after 12:00pm (yeahhh that wouldn’t work for me) and they also spoke about being reborn and how you are reborn until you can live like Buddha (basically, without sin). I am sure there was a lot more but it was really interesting and a great way for them to practice their English and for me to learn more! Oh yeah I did ask (because two guys did NOT want to talk) and they are SUPPOSE to attend these, some are just more motivated (or confident) to practice their English!

I was there for a little over an hour and then left to find some dinner (sorry monks, I gotta eat!) I knew I was somewhat close to another “main” area of Chiang Mai so I decided to head there, I just didn’t realize HOW long a walk it was! But, I had read on my map about this place that sounded like it had good steak so that’s where I went! I realized that it was on the same street Mom, Lorna and I went to the spa (one of the reasons I LOVED having time to explore Chiang Mai with them) so it was cool to know where I was!

The place looked beautiful and I checked the menu for some steak (I don’t know how you vegetarians do it!) I was brought inside to a table and that’s when I realized I had entered, HEAVEN! It was a buffet and Julie Bulie LOVES buffets (a little too much!) It was honestly so AMAZING! The food, well just everything was wonderful! And granted I had my fair share of sweets, I actually REALLY enjoyed the veggies as it has been FAR too long since I have had veggies!

I was disgustingly full and after my chat with the monks I have decided in my next life I want to be a camel. I know, I do NOT like the heat and get very grumpy, so maybe I won’t have a lot of camel friends, BUT I love the idea of storing food (I think they store food AND water..maybe just water..but if I am a camel I am going to store both). I realize I eat so much because I don’t want to be hungry later! Who knows when I am going to eat again, so I just like to eat a lot in the hopes that when I get hungry later I can just eat what’s already in my stomach! The monks did say you can be reborn as an animal..so I am thinking, camel. Oh AND I like the pyramids as well, so I am thinking an Egyptian camel.

Anyway, since I was in another part of town I decided to check it out a little bit, but I think I was too late as most things were closed. I will definitely head back to that area again.

I wasn’t quite sure how to get home but I figured I would attempt the red truck. I flagged one down, showed him the card Prachit had given me and off we went! About 5 minutes into the drive I realized we weren’t really going the way I thought we should go. I didn’t say anything because we weren’t going in the opposite direction, just more of a roundabout way and there was a woman in the front so I figured maybe he had to drop her off first. But, when he pulled over and just stopped, I knew I would somehow have to explain to him we weren’t where I wanted to be. Ironically enough, we had stopped at the place the yellow truck always stops in the morning and tries to peer pressure people to get on! I did have to laugh at that. I got out, showed him my card AND showed him another card from the hostel. The one Prachit gave me was in Thai but the hostel one was in English so I was hoping he could figure it out.

I think he said something about not reading the whole thing (part of it is in parenthesis) but we were off again and this time we ended up where I needed to be. I wondered if he was going to rip me off (I was the only one in the truck at this point and granted it wasn’t my fault we got lost as he did drive out of the way) but he said 40 baht, I paid, and we were all set!

I am going to be changing out my videos this weekend, so make sure to check them out!

Hugs and kisses from my new monk friends!

Why Doesn’t Sleep Like Me?

Another 3:00am nighter. I don’t know WHAT is up with this as I have never had THIS much trouble sleeping. I was especially exhausted yesterday after my day with the kids and incredibly sore (which may have been part of the reason for my lack of sleeping). After only a couple of hours of rest I woke up with a headache, got dressed, had my breakfast and decided I really needed to sleep some more. I hate skipping out on volunteering, but I knew I would show up half dead with an awful headache (the kind you get from not sleeping) so I figured it would be better for me to rest and go in for the afternoon. Also, this seemed to make sense because I had no idea what I was going to do for lunch/the two hour nap time.

After a few more hours of sleep I woke up without the headache convinced I had made the right choice. I dropped off my laundry and headed to the Coffee Bug (across the street) for some brunch. It is a bit of a hole in the wall type of place, but it wasn’t too bad. I then headed off to the bus stop and explored that area a bit.

I was a bit confused where to find the bus (well, truck) because I had come in a different way, but I showed a man my little direction note card Prachit gave me and he pointed to a truck and I hopped on! In the beginning it was just me (which was actually nice) and then about half way through we stopped at this one place for a really long time (no idea why). It is sort of different because the drover tries to get people to join us! It reminds me of the tuk-tuk drivers, but he is a bus driver! Sometimes I will be walking around and (mostly the red buses) will wave me down, very strange. I am assuming they all work for the same company, but maybe they get to keep what they earn so they try to make the most!

Anyway, luckily he didn’t forget my stop. I don’t know if there are actual stops because I usually just see people press the button and then he pulls over and lets them off. But I kept my eyes peeled in case he did miss it!

I showed up in the baby room ready for action and they were ready for me! Most of the older kids (the ones who can walk) play with each other and the staff is really good about playing with them too. So I decided to spend time with the babies! I enjoy it because the language barrier isn’t a problem!

At least three kids are always crying so I have my pick of who to hold. I tried to take time with every baby there and hold them and kiss them and rock them and anything to comfort them and show them love (since obviously they don’t get a lot of individual attention). They are adorable and I really love being with them. A few of them were ok when I put them down again but there was one that would start bawling when I put him down so he was spoiled most of the afternoon as I catered to him. Most of my time was spent changing diapers (it goes right through so it’s EASY to tell when they need to be changed as your hand is wet) and playing with crying babies! I have yet to find a comfortable way to do this (have I mentioned how SORE I am) so I am still working on that!

I left around 4:15pm and while it doesn’t SEEM like much, I thought it was the perfect amount of time! I tried to do a better job today of pacing myself but I had a lot of fun and it didn’t get to the point I was ready to pull my hair out!

The highway was a little tricky to cross today and I had to wait a bit for a yellow truck but I made it ok. Have I mentioned how much I dislike the transportation? I try to close my eyes and relax but something was poking my back and people are climbing all over you! Ugh!

On the way back to the hostel I stopped at a western grocery store to get some PB&J! Now I never thought I’d say this, but I am SO tired of eating out! My family doesn’t cook (my mom freely admits this so I am not going to hurt her feelings) so we eat out a lot! I have grown up eating out. But eating out for 3 months straight, ugh! I think it’s also the fact I don’t have the OPTION of eating in and I am just so tired of it! So I figured this way I can have a sandwich for lunch or something!

I came back, rested for a bit and then went to a place just down the street for some dinner! I got chicken fingers and French fries (so healthy I know) but I honestly haven’t had that in forever and it tasted really good! I then hit up the night market to do a little shopping (gifts..sadly not for me) and I realized something. I am SO tired of shopping in Asia and I am SO over bargaining! All I wanted to do was to get some nice gifts for friends and family. I didn’t want to spend hours over something making sure I didn’t get ripped off! I find myself now looking for places with set prices (they have to be reasonable of course) just so I don’t have to waste time bargaining! I don’t have trouble finding something I like, but then it takes 10 minutes to get a good price.

I did my best bargaining in Beijing. It was new, it was exciting and I enjoyed it! Now, I decide what I want to pay for it (even if I MIGHT be able to get it lower) and just go for it. If they don’t like it, I walk away and start again. I also find myself getting VERY offended in some instances. For example, I was looking at something and someone quoted me 250 baht. I went to the next place and he started at 450 baht! I didn’t even want to bargain with him because I was offended he started so high and was trying to rip me off! Ugh! haha! I definitely will enjoy coming home and going into a store and just PAYING for it! This bargaining business is TOO much work!

But anyway, after a somewhat successful night of shopping I came back ready for a wonderful cold shower and bed!

Hugs and kisses from a girl who needs to fall asleep at night!

First Day of Volunteering in Thailand!

I slept better last night (with the help of some Tylenol PM) and was up at 7:00am and downstairs to meet Prachit at 8:00am. At 8:10am she still wasn’t there so I called and then texted her to see if I got the time right. We ended up leaving at 8:15am and walking the 10ish minutes to the bus stop.

The bus is nothing more than a pickup truck. The bed of the truck is covered and has benches on either side and if that’s full you have to stand on the back and hold on (like a fireman!) I think I am at the beginning of the route because I have to show the man a card with where I am going and he points to the correct bus. Oh and it has to be yellow! I take the yellow trucks!

It took about 35 minutes to get to my stop and I am NOT a fan of the bus. It’s hot, you’re sitting at an awkward angle and you can’t really see out (which I do not like).

Once we got dropped off it was about another 10 minute walk to the orphanage! I don’t HATE the commute, but I do hate that I will be spending 2 hours a day traveling when I feel like it could be better spent. But, I am thankful that my hostel is in a good location so I think the commute is worth it!

When we arrived at the Vieng Ping Children’s home I had to hand in my application and passport! Talk about well run! I have never had to do either in all the places I have volunteered! The application asked all about where I was from, what qualifications I have, passport and visa info and references (I forget who I put but if they call you say nice things!) They also made a copy of my passport and visa and I had to sign both!

The home is HUGE and is actually more like a campus (it probably takes 15 to 20 minutes to walk the whole thing). The children start in the baby rooms and continue on to different rooms all the way up until they are about 7 and then they get moved to girls homes and boys homes (I saw rooms but they are actually all different buildings).

Prachit said I would be working in the baby room where there are 25 kids from newborns to about 2. Since it was the morning they were outside in these..well they were big carts and at first it made me laugh but then it made sense as they couldn’t have all the kids running off!

It reminded me a lot of the Home of Joy..picking up the crying ones and trying to console them. I had a long talk with John who I think is in his 50’s and is from Australia although has been living in Chiang Mai for the past 10 years. I have no idea what he used to do for work but now he spends a lot of time with NGO’s helping out with adoption. He said most of the children here have parents but they either can’t afford them, had unwanted pregnancies, drug problems etc. He said about 40% are adoptable (although he mentioned he didn’t know of any who were adopted from the U.S.) He then said how he has been volunteering here for about 10 years now and he told me he didn’t think they were taken care of very well (although I disagree). He said how the Buddhist belief is that “orphans” are being punished for something bad they did in their past life. He didn’t think the staff gave them much love, etc.

Anyway I then went to the lunch room to help three kids practice eating on their own. Pretty soon these kids will leave the baby room and move on to a big kid room so they have them practice feeding themselves.

I then went back to the feeding room to help feed the babies, although I think they are the hardest ones yet! They don’t seem to want to eat and are just squirming all around. Between 11:00am-11:30am they try to finish eating and put them down for naps (sometimes a bath as well). Prachit stayed with me which I thought was GREAT (none of my other coordinators have done that).

It was then diaper folding time (which I have never done before) although at most of the orphanages I have been at they do all use cloth diapers.

At this point I was starving so we headed outside to get some food (which ended up being a tiny little stand). The food was cheap (good) but I did not like it (bad). Here is the thing..I TRY anything and I TRY to like it..but I just DON’T! Prachit said I could eat there every day, but in my opinion life is too short to spend 5 days a week eating a lunch I don’t even like! So I will have to figure out something..either bring my own lunch or eat somewhere else. But there aren’t a lot of options in the area and if I eat there it’ll be by myself (the staff doesn’t really speak English).

After lunch it was rest time. Now I am ALL about resting, especially with these kids, but it was awkward. Prachit said the normal schedule was volunteering from 9:00am-11:30am, have lunch and nap and volunteer again from 2:00-4:30. Now I don’t MIND long days BUT I liked it better when I could switch it up. The kids are GREAT and cute, but I feel like I need a little break (am I complaining too much?) The thing I liked about Cambodia was I had long days (like this) but I had time to relax by myself at lunch and I did two different things so I felt like I was changing it up enough to stay fresh.

She said I could take a nap upstairs, which ended up being this mat (not too comfy) on the floor in the play room that the kids throw up, pee and poop on. Sorry but it’s true. I felt sort of awkward (the room is HUGE and it was so bright out) so I don’t think that’s going to work out. I appreciate the fact they give me time to rest (the staff rests too but I think somewhere else) but it just feels awkward. I couldn’t fall asleep because it was just weird. Prachit said the staff sometimes rests in the room with the kids or they just relax and chat which is great, but since we don’t speak the same language it really is just me!

So that, combined with lunch, makes me think I might not stick around during that time. That is the one thing that has been hard about ALL my placements is there is a huge chunk of time for lunch and naps. BUT since I am so far away it doesn’t really make sense for me to go back to the hostel and then come back, but it also doesn’t make sense for me to stay and literally do NOTHING for 2 hours. I don’t know, I will play it by ear and see what happens.

After our “nap” the kids were awake and we got to play with them in the room, which was fun! There was more to do than in the morning when I was playing with them outside.

I was pleasantly surprised with how great the staff is (so I am confused as to what John was saying). They give the kids lots of attention and love and are always playing with them. I also see they check diapers regularly, etc. so that was great to see and I think they are being treated well.

A nurse in training came to visit, Mahena from France. She is in her final year of school (she seems a little older than me) and I don’t think she is exactly doing nursing things at the orphanage (she was just playing with the kids like me) but she has been here for two weeks and will leave in another two.

I also met Sally who is from the U.S. but has been living in Germany for the past 10 years. She said how she was here last year for 4 months and is now here until June. I have no idea what she does for a living (if anything..she seems in her 50’s) that she can take that time off. I asked her if she was working here or just volunteering and she said last year she did both but this year she is just volunteering because she is also taking Thai language classes. Oh and she has a furnished apartment here!

Around 4:30pm Prachit and I headed out and I was exhausted. I could already tell my back was going to be sore since most of the day was spent holding kids etc. We walked and had to cross a highway (no joke) so we could pick up the bus going in the other direction. Since it was the end of the day there was more traffic and I already know I am going to hate the commutes on this bus!

I was SO happy to get back to the hostel to rest and could have stayed there all night. But I ventured out to find some dinner and just ended up at some no name place and then the fun began. Prachit told me there is a dress code at the orphanage (nope, never had that either). She said I couldn’t wear anything above my knees (and this is when I was wearing the special capris I bought to wear at the orphanage) and she asked if I had pants. I told her I had one pair (the purple ones I bought for zip lining and elephants) so I wore those today. She said something about how there are boys there, but I didn’t see any boys over the age of 2! Who knows, maybe they start early in Thailand! I am tempted to wear the longest pair of capris I own tomorrow, but I thought tonight I would pick up another pair of pants so I don’t break the rules.

Now I HATE shopping in Asia when I need something. I was exhausted and just wanted to take a shower but I was out pant hunting. It took me a while to find something because my original hope was to get something I would actually wear again (didn’t happen). I was in NO mood for bargaining so when I found a sign that said 99 baht for pants (I wasn’t willing to pay more than 100 baht) I bought them and left! Sheeesh this orphanage is a lot of work!

Hugs and kisses from my first day of volunteering in Thailand!

The Pool Hopper

I could NOT fall asleep AGAIN last night! Up until at least 3:00am! I am hoping to start exercising a bit and spending more time outside to hopefully help me sleep at night!

My first stop this morning was going to be breakfast. Since I ate awful yesterday I was going to go to a place across the street but it ended up being closed! So then I picked up my laundry. I LOVE having clean clothes, especially because I literally had nothing left (I had to wear my PJ’s just to GET my clothes).

I dropped my laundry off at the hostel and then headed out to find some breakfast. I was hoping to take myself to a NICE place, but by the time I reached my second Starbucks I decided a muffin would have to do!

My goal for this afternoon was to do some pool hopping! I realized I am SCREWED when I get home, seeing as I have spent the past three months in 80 degree weather! My Dad kindly reminds me every time I talk to him what will be waiting for me come mid February so I thought I would spend some time outside today.

I had done a little research as to what pools in the area would be good and my first stop was a bit of a walk but the pictures on the website looked beautiful. The pool was EXACTLY what I was looking for and it wasn’t too hard to find (the key is to walk into lobby with confidence like you are staying at the hotel). However, I ran into a problem when I sat down and a woman came over with a towel (good!) and a guest sign in sheet (bad!). I kindly asked where the restroom was and BOOKED it outta there! I may have been able to say I just wanted to visit, but I didn’t want to have to pay and it wasn’t worth the effort! So I crossed that one off the list.

My next stop I think has potential. There are two pools (small and I couldn’t find a chair in the sun), but it didn’t seem like the hotel staff would bother me so I may try that sometime.

I was getting a bit thirsty (and hungry) so I stopped at a cute breakfast place to have some yogurt and fruit (and boy was it good!)

My next stop has potential as well, although I don’t know WHO designed the layout. It seems as though the pool wasn’t getting any sun because the hotel was blocking it! Granted, it wasn’t really a sunny day but it seemed like it would NEVER be a sunny day at the pool. There was a desk (when you get off the elevator) handing out towels etc. but the woman at the desk didn’t say anything to me, so who knows.

I didn’t really get caught at my next stop, and maybe it was because I was creepily looking at the pool but the man at the desk asked if I needed help. I told him I was all set and moved on (probably won’t be going back there!)

At that point I decided I would call it a day as far as pool hopping goes! I came back to rest, catch up on blogging, unpack a bit more and shower (still cold). I then headed out to walk to the Sunday market. When we went last Sunday it was SO crowded (too many people) and it was only AFTER we left that Lorna informed us she had read to go early (around 4:00pm when they are just setting up). I checked out two more pools along the way (nothing great) and made it to the market before it got crowded.

I didn’t really like it any better than I did a week ago but I did enjoy the fact that there were less people! I decided to stop and get spaghetti at the place my mom and I ate since she said it was so good and it was DELICIOUS! I was about ready to head back but it was still early (5:30pm) and I wanted to stay in the area until 6:00pm because I had read that everyone stops and they play the national anthem.

So, (since I had nothing to do) I went to the Chocolate Fact and got fondue! Hey, I mean I had to kill time, what was I suppose to do!!! It was SO GOOD!

6:00pm came and went and NOTHING happened so I was sort of bummed I had stayed out for nothing, although the chocolate fondue was worth it!

I was SO sore from yesterday (sitting in the car) and today (I did a lot of walking) so I treated myself to a massage (so spoiled I know) and came back to the hostel!

Hugs and kisses from a pool hopping Julie!

Eleven hours in a car = not ok!

I could NOT (for the LIFE of me) fall asleep last night! I think the last time I looked at the clock it was 3:30am and knowing I had to wake up at 7:00am did NOT make me happy. I think maybe it was just because it was my first night in a new place and I was a bit anxious about today because I had no idea what to expect!

I was up at 7:00am and exhausted, but got ready for the day. I am already missing the luxury of staying in an actual hotel as my shower this morning was cold. Well, I shouldn’t say cold, but it definitely was not warm. Luckily, I have not met any ants in my bathroom OR my bed which really is a win in itself so cold showers aren’t the end of the world. After eating breakfast, I called my mom who was JUST arriving home (and freezing)! SUCKER!

I met Prachit in the lobby at 8:00am and she told me we were waiting for Stephen (the volunteer who is leaving) so we could drop him off at the airport. I was actually kind of bummed he was leaving. Even though we only spoke for about 10 minutes he seemed nice and it would have been fun to have a travel buddy! But anyway, Tako was also with him and I am STILL confused about his story. He is a student from Japan and I don’t think he is through WLS but he knows Prachit and is traveling but doing a little volunteer work. I think we were supposed to take Tako to his hostel but Prachit invited him along for the day and he decided he wanted to come!

The Chiang Mai airport is literally 10 minutes away which is awesome! We dropped Stephen off and I hopped in the front (anything I can do to help prevent carsickness) and we were off (I had also taken Bonine). It was a little over 3 hours to Chiang Rai and when we arrived Prachit took us to a temple. I actually didn’t mind seeing another because this one was beautiful (it almost looked like a princess castle!)

We left the temple and Prachit suggested a place for lunch because we were all starving. Little did I know it was a half hour away! Sheesh! It was pretty good except my meal was SO spicy! I wish it wasn’t because I REALLY liked it but my mouth was on fire, my lips were burning, it was really painful!

We left lunch to head to the Myanmar border which I thought was pretty cool but again it was about another half hour away. It is really just a bridge to cross (we didn’t because it would affect our visas) and Prachit said people go back and forth all the time.

The whole reason we went to Chiang Rai was because Prachit had to check on her coffee (farm?). She said she and her husband bought the land about 2 years ago and are planning to build a house in Chiang Rai soon! So we started driving and before I knew it we were going down this crazy dirt road on the side of a mountain! When we finally got to the coffee area (it just looked like the side of a mountain to me) it was beautiful and reminded me a lot of Italy! It was so peaceful and quiet and I loved breathing fresh, clean air. She met with the workers and then we were off! The drive there and back into civilization was two hours total and while it was pretty, it wasn’t really worth the drive.

At this point we had been driving for six hours and I was about done with the car. But, Prachit wanted to bring us to the Golden Triangle which is where Thailand, Myanmar and Laos all meet! The IDEA of it was cool, but all you did was look to the left (Myanmar) and look across the river (Laos) and there you have it! It wasn’t worth another hour of driving! Hint: Myanmar looked like Thailand and Laos looked like Thailand. In theory it is cool to think I was looking at two different countries, but I guess it really didn’t do anything for me.

By this point ALL I wanted to do was go back! I was SO grateful that Prachit offered to take me and thought it was so nice of her, but it was too much driving and I was sore and just tired! So we started the four hour drive back.

We drove and we drove and we drove and we drove! I thought I was going to go crazy! We were somewhat close to being back (although it all seems relative) when we came to a dead stop. Prachit told us it was because the Royal Family was driving by so we all had to stop and wait. We started talking about “politics” if you will and it was so interesting. She was saying how about 70% of the people don’t like the King (he only helps the wealthy) but if you say anything bad you will go to jail. She also said (this was random) the King’s son is married to a famous Thai porn star (both are in their 50’s). She continued to say that if she is born again she hopes not in Thailand and I asked her why and she said she doesn’t like how she can’t speak her mind. It really made me appreciate the U.S. and my freedom of speech that so many people have fought (and died) to protect!

I was thankful to be back and grateful that I was able to see another part of Thailand, but think if I had to do it again I wouldn’t make it a day trip! Also, I updated all my pictures from Cambodia although the second half of pictures are the ones from my cheap camera. The quality is so funny to compare to an actual digital camera, but hey they are pictures! They are in no order so I tried to label them to help. All my videos are updated but I will be changing them in a few days so check these ones out!

Hugs and kisses from a girl who doesn’t want to see a car for a long time!

My Last New Start in Asia!

It was VERY lonely last night going to sleep. While I was SO grateful mom splurged to get us a nice BIG room..it was TOO big to be alone! But I slept pretty well and was up at 10:00am to get breakfast! I finished packing, checked out and waited for my coordinator, Prachit, to pick me up at 11:30am. She was right on time (imagine that) and did make a comment about my bags by saying, “BOTH of these are yours?” She was VERY sweet and gave me a WLS t-shirt! I explained I had never gotten one before and she said she made them for her volunteers! She also gave me an apron to wear at the orphanage! So far (and granted it has only been a day) she is my favorite coordinator, because she actually cares and tries to help! She had her truck so we drove to the hostel and she was telling me how she use to put volunteers closer to the orphanage but there was NOTHING to do at night so that’s why she picked this new hostel (and I am very glad). My room wasn’t ready, so she suggested we take a drive to see Wat Doi Suthep. I wanted to tell her I was all templed out..AND I knew I had read that this temple (popular with tourists) had a ton of stairs and my legs (after the elephants) were in NO shape to walk up stairs. But, I very much appreciated the fact that she was being an actual COORDINATOR so off we went!

Wat Doi Suthep is 3,000ft above sea level and is Chiang Mai's most famous temple. The drive was VERY windy up a mountain. I read after that the road is 7.5 miles up the mountain. And then I saw the stairs! It wasn’t AS bad as I thought and the temple was just another temple, but it did have a nice view of the city. Unfortunately it was VERY hazy but it was still cool to see..especially to see how close the airport is (Mom said it took about 10 minutes from our hotel).

After the temple she suggested we stop by the orphanage so I could get paperwork to bring in on Monday. Like I said, I think this orphanage is VERY well run and the fact that I have to fill out an application makes me think so even more! The application is thorough (I need copies of my passport and visa, contact information, etc.) which I think is GREAT, but I will have to see if I really feel NEEDED there.

We left the orphanage and I asked her if we could stop somewhere so I could get some soap and add more minutes to my phone. She brought me to a Carrefour which was 10 times better than SUPER Wal-Mart’s! I am not kidding! Granted it wasn’t just a Carrefour but rather a mall! It had a lot of places to eat (KFC, Pizza Hut and McD’s) but we ate in the food court and she ordered me something Thai. It was alright, but nothing great. I had a field day in the Carrefour and wished she wasn’t waiting for me because I felt like I could spend DAYS wandering around! But I was able to get everything I needed, and granted it isn’t close to where I am staying, it is comforting to know that if need be I can go there and get whatever I need. I was also able to add money to my phone and I was SO grateful Prachit was kind enough to help me with my “errands”. I wanted to be like, “WHERE WERE YOU THE PAST THREE MONTHS?” I was going to be fine with having a coordinator who did nothing since I already knew where I would be staying, where I would be volunteering and the area, but it is great she is actually helping me!

As we were driving back to the hostel Prachit asked if I had anything going on tomorrow. I didn’t know HOW to answer..”it depends” didn’t seem appropriate, so I told her I didn’t think I did. She told me she had to drive Stephen (the volunteer who is leaving tomorrow..I haven’t met him) to the airport and was then going to Chiang Ria for the day and asked if I wanted to join her. It is a 3 hour drive each way and I have NO clue why she is going (something about coffee I think..) but I said I would love to join her. I figured I will probably never make it to Chiang Ria and I will have a free guide, so granted I am not really excited about it (especially the 6 hours of driving) I think I will be glad I did it!

We left and came back to the hostel so I could check in. It is probably the nicest hostel I have stayed in. I am on the 4th floor but it has an ELEVATOR! Crazy! My PLAN is to ALWAYS walk down and once my legs aren’t sore anymore I will TRY and walk up and not use the elevator. We shall see!

Prachit asked about laundry and they said they could do it for 40 baht/kilo but the place down the street can do it for 30 baht/kilo so I will be going there! The hostel also has wireless (woo hoo) but it is a bit weak (since I am on the 4th floor) so if need be I can always go to the lobby.

In my room (414) I have a big bed, a closet and a stand with a TV! The bathroom is also nice and I have a bathtub which is good, but the shower head is SO low I feel like I am going to have a hard time! But the room is fine (minus the iron imprints someone left on the floor)!

I headed out to drop off my laundry (which will be ready tomorrow afternoon) and then thought I would head to Starbucks with my laptop! I was a bit hungry (since I didn’t really like lunch) so thought I would get a cool drink and do some blogging. I saw they had a wifi sign so I ordered my drink and asked for the password which is when she told me it cost money! Ridiculous! So I drank it on the way back to the hostel!

I spent some time catching up on my interneting (I have fallen very far behind) and then headed out to grab some dinner. I was lazy and went back to Duke’s Steakhouse and got the exact same meal. I didn’t even DO much today, but I just wanted to go somewhere and get something I knew I would like. It’s about a 5-10 minute walk to the hotel we stayed at and the main strip which I LOVE! I could NOT have been more lucky (when mom booked the hotel she didn’t know where I would be staying) since I already know and feel comfortable with the area. Regardless I am happy the hostel is in a good location (lots of shopping, places to eat, etc).

I am going to have to figure out the safest way to walk back, although Prachit said it was all very safe (but probably not by myself at 2:00am so I will have to refrain from all my late night partying..boo!)

When I got back I had a LOT of unpacking to do, but I enjoy taking my time to get organized. Whenever my friends have seen my room they always say, “Wow it is so homey!” So now, I am off to make my new room a little bit MORE homey!

Hugs and kisses from the beginning of the end!

Girl’s Day!

Oh sleeping in! I feel like for the past two weeks I either get to sleep in or am up before the sun! There seems to be no in between! Anyway last night we watched the videos from the elephants and we laughed so hard our tummies hurt. I can’t wait to post them!

We set our alarm for 10:00am so we wouldn’t miss breakfast..AND we all brought baggies today so we could have some snacks for later. We had decided we wanted to have a girl’s day and go to the spa to get pampered. The trouble was finding a place that wasn’t so expensive, but was clean! We found one and yesterday Lorna called to make us reservations.

Our taxi arrived, but the bellman at the hotel was trying to explain to us our spa was closed but the taxi would bring us to another one. It sounded VERY sketchy but this is when I was SO thankful we were staying at a NICE hotel that wouldn’t scam us. I think he said it was just a different BRANCH of the spa, so off we went!

We arrived at the spa (a completely different name) but maybe they worked with the other spa? And I still don’t understand why the first spa just didn’t tell us they would be closed..but ANYWAY it looked very nice and we were the only ones there. We were brought to a main room so mom and Lorna could get foot massages and I could get a manicure and pedicure! After my pedicure, mom and Lorna were done so they left to go get full body massages and I got my manicure! Then, I went to get a full body massage and I honestly don’t think I have EVER had one as good as this. I was SO sore from the elephants and it felt so nice to get pampered! I was only done about 5 minutes before Lorna and mom (they also got a facial) and we all felt GREAT afterward (we could get use to this sort of thing). We had passed the Chocolate Fact (well another branch) which is the dessert place mom and I had tried to go to the other night. But, we didn’t really see anything we liked, so we decided to get a tuk-tuk to the other side of the river to go to Love at First Bite.

I showed him on the map where we wanted to go but we all knew he had no clue. Thankfully, God gave me a sense of direction and I knew after one turn we weren’t going to end up where we wanted. He brought us to the boat pier of the river and I explained we needed to cross the river. My guess is he understood me say river (I told him we wanted to go to the other side of the river) and just brought us there instead! But, with a little help he managed to get us there!

Love at First Bite was very beautiful and had a nice little outside seating area. Our dessert was our lunch and it was VERY good! Since we weren’t too far away from our hotel we were able to walk back which was nice. Mom and Lorna finished up their packing and I attempted to catch up on blogs!

We decided we needed to go somewhere close for dinner since mom and Lorna needed to catch the shuttle to the airport at 6:45pm. We looked at the hotel menu but it was a bit too fancy so we opted for Pizza Hut instead! I know, I know, but hey it was the closest thing beside the Sports Bar which we had already gone to TWICE! It was delicious but I will admit I might be taking a little hiatus from Pizza Hut for a while (ok ok probably just a few days).

After getting back to the hotel, mom and Lorna headed downstairs to get their shuttle. The doorman seemed VERY confused by the fact that they needed a ride to the airport but we weren’t checking out until tomorrow. Mom had decided to keep the room for another night so we could have the room for the FULL day (so they didn’t have to pack up and be homeless for the day) and so I could spend the night there before moving to my hostel!

We had TRIPLE checked with the concierge to make sure they understood the situation (because they SEEMED confused..and granted it probably wasn’t normal to take an airport shuttle the DAY before you check out) but they obviously still didn’t understand because at 6:50pm there wasn’t a car for mom and Lorna. However, a bellman came over (about the third one) to ask about the situation and next thing I knew he was loading up their bags into a car and then he hopped in the front seat to drive them to the airport! It was kind of funny..but it was nice that at least they made the situation better!

I was actually VERY sad to see them go and I say actually because I knew I would be sad, I just didn’t realize HOW sad! Granted I have been having an AMAZING time, but I will be ready to go home. It is very tiring traveling alone in Asia. I realized that even if we weren’t doing anything or even if I wasn’t talking to my mom or Lorna, I loved HAVING them there!

Surprisingly, I really don’t like traveling alone. I thought I would because I love BEING alone (no I am not a loser..) I like being alone when I am home, I liked being alone when I was at Stonehill and I like being alone here. I remember in Vietnam I looked forward to the nights when I could spend time reflecting through blogging etc. Being introverted, I need my “me” time to rejuvenate. But, even though I enjoy my alone time, I’ve found that I would much rather TRAVEL with other people. Lorna asked how I could eat meals by myself every day, and it’s not that part I mind, but rather sharing the experiences with someone. I am able to share my experiences through blogging, but while mom and Lorna were here I loved talking about our days at dinner and saying, “wasn’t that so fun!”

I am not complaining at all, I just surprised myself by the fact that I love to travel, but I love it even more when I can share my experiences with others!

Also..I updated my pictures and videos! I have pictures from my first week in Siem Reap (more to come) and some new videos as well!

Hugs and kisses from a wonderful two with my two favorite girls!

Elephant Keeper for a Day!!

Oh I was looking forward to breakfast this morning! And it was delicious! We left a little extra time so we could relax before we got picked up at 7:45am to be an elephant keeper for a day!

Ben was our driver and there were two girls from France (one who didn’t speak English) already in the van. We then stopped to pick up someone else and were stopped on the side of the road for literally 20 minutes while Ben was picking up someone. FINALLY this Australian guy showed up. We had no idea what took him so long but they we were off!

It took about 45 minutes to get to the elephant farm and we met up with another couple from England. Ben took some time to explain a little bit about what we were doing during the day although his English was very hard to understand.

We then started walking through the fields to go find our elephants and the scenery was so beautiful! We stopped at a little hut to put on sunscreen, bug spray, etc and we also put on these shirts (the same ones that trainers wore so the elephants would be ok with us) and walked over to meet our elephants. Ben picked me first and matched me up with the only male elephant since apparently he only likes working with females (smart elephant)! However, he didn’t seem very responsive to me, so we waited and Ben showed mom and Lorna to their elephants! Finally, I went back to mine and once he saw the food he was ok with me. It was hard to feed him though because he had massive tusks and he was just whipping them around with no regard to my head!

After we fed them we had to check and make sure they were healthy! First, we had to make sure they were happy. If they were happy, they would be swinging their tails and moving their ears! Next, we had to make sure they had slept by checking their sleeping marks. They sleep on their side for about 30 minutes and then stand up for 10 minutes and sleep again on the other side for about 30 minutes. They only sleep for 4 hours a night! After that, we had to make sure they were getting enough exercise by looking to see if they were sweating under their nails. Last, but NOT least, we had to check their poop! They made us squeeze it (no gloves, I thought that was gross) to make sure they were drinking enough and we had to make sure it didn’t smell foul or have a funny shape or anything.

Thankfully we moved on to cleaning the elephants. The first step was to hit them with a bouquet of leaves (that’s really what it was) to get all the dirt off. The top of their bodies was the hardest since they cover themselves in dirt as sunscreen/fly protection. The dirt would fly all over us and still seemed to stay on the elephant. It was actually really hard work and my arms were SO sore at the end! At that point we were only half way done cleaning our elephant. We then brought them into the river to really wash them! We had buckets and we would throw water on them and then take a brush to really wash them. Ben told us how it was like a massage for them, so I tried to do the best for my elephant since I love massages so much! But this was even HARDER work! We all laughed because sometimes we would throw the water and it wouldn’t even hit the elephant and I think our elephant guides kept yelling at us because we weren’t very good at washing them! Oh well we tried!

We had a small break so our elephant could eat and we could have a snack since our next step was riding our elephant! Lorna went first and the elephant put out its foot so we could kind of step on and then we would hoist ourselves up and over (with the help of the trainers on either side). Mom, I hate to do this to you, but I have HAVE to tell your story! I know she was really nervous about getting on the elephant and LUCKILY we have a video to really show exactly what happened (blackmail..hey Mom I really could use some more money..haha). The first time she tried her pants were tied too tight at the bottom so she fixed that. Then, the elephant lifted its leg too fast so she kind of stepped down. At that point I think Ben stepped in to try and help. The next time she tried, the elephant moved too fast and she kind of fell backwards. It FINALLY worked (sort of) but as she had gotten herself up the elephant dropped its leg and she started sliding down the side of the elephant! We were DYING laughing! She finally did make it up and I was very proud of her!

We took about a 45 minute hike to the waterfall. It was awesome to ride an elephant bareback, but it REALLY worked our legs. We sat right behind its ears and sort of had to squeeze our thighs together to hold on. There was a rope behind us, but it was a bit hard/awkward to hold on to while riding the elephant.

When we got to the waterfall the elephants went for a swim and we got to join them. It was a blast (but kind of scary). The elephants were just hanging out and didn’t seem to mind if we were hanging on them, but they would just roll around and a few times I thought I might get stuck under them and drown! There is another video (sorry mom I can’t help it) of us on an elephant and the thing just throwing us off (I think mom got thrown under water)! We had a lot of fun though!

We then had a picnic lunch in a little bamboo hut overlooking the river (it felt VERY Thai). The food was just ok (it was all common Thai food and then fried chicken) but they also had dragon fruit which is my favorite!

We left lunch and the waterfall and took a trek back through the woods and our elephants amazed us all! The path was SO skinny and steep and the elephants were so surefooted we were astonished! It was really a beautiful hike!

We stopped so our elephants could eat and we learned a little bit more about the history of the elephants in Thailand and about the elephants at this camp. We then got on our elephants again for the LAST ride of the day and got to ride them with our legs hanging over the front of their face! Mom and Lorna chickened out and went back to the other way (I don’t blame them as it was sort of scary) but I tried it out. It felt like there was no support; you were kind of just hanging out on an elephant and hoping he wouldn’t throw you off!

We said goodbye to our elephants and headed back to Chiang Mai. It was only suppose to be a 30 minute drive, but turned into something much longer. First of all, we came back during rush hour and granted Chiang Mai isn’t a HUGE city there was still a lot of people out and about. Second of all (I still have NO clue WHY they do this) but when Ben dropped people off THAT’S when they paid! So people would be rummaging through their backpack (while everyone else was waiting in the car) and then they would need change, etc. so long story short it took us about an hour and a half to get home. I know I was a little grumpy as I was tired, hungry and in need of a shower!

After we had showered off elephant it was about 7:00pm. We were starving and too tired to go anywhere in a taxi. So we headed back to the Sports Bar! It was walkable, we knew they had decent food AND we liked the atmosphere!

After dinner we walked down the street a bit and I got an ice cream and then we all came back so my mom and Lorna could pack (noooo don’t leave me!) and so we could all crash!

Hugs and kisses from our elephants!

Zip line baby!

Even though we had to wake up early today..we had a good reason! We were up at 5:45am to get ready for zip lining through the Thailand rain forest! We missed breakfast (it started at 6:30am) BUT I thought ahead and brought a plastic baggie with us downstairs hoping the buffet had set up early. And it had! Woo hoo! So (like the old woman I am) I stuffed some muffins and pastries in my plastic baggie and we were off!

We were in a big van and met the 6 other people who would be in our group. There was a man from Germany, a man from Sweden, a couple from Denmark and a couple from New Zealand. It took about an hour to get to the starting point and the ride was SO bumpy and windy! Luckily, I had taken some Bonine because otherwise I probably would have been very carsick.

We arrived at the Flight of the Gibbon to sign our life away and get harnessed in. We took a short 5 minute drive to the start of the zip line and we were off! It was so fun and there were 15 platforms in all. One by one we would do the zip line and then get unharnessed, harnessed to the tree and then unharnessed and back on the zip line! Luckily they did all the hard work for us! We had a LOT of fun and took a lot of pictures! It wasn’t as physically challenging as we though (you really only had to sit there and they would guide you) but it was a blast!

After the final ride we went back to the main place to pick up our backpacks and then headed to an area to see a waterfall. We had no idea what to expect, but nobody warned us that it was going to be SO physical! There were carved out stairs, but MAN it was a hike! Our legs were all shaking by the time we were done! Lorna fell once (it was SO slippery) but sadly I was in front of her and wasn’t able to witness it! It was very beautiful but I don’t think it was worth the hike!

We left the waterfall for the short drive back to the main area for lunch! It was almost like a Thai village neighborhood and I am not sure which huts the zip line place owned verses where people lived! Lunch was actually pretty good. We had rice, potatoes, chicken in a spicy broth (Lorna thought it was TOO spicy) and non spicy chicken and veggies. We ALSO had fruit for dessert. Overall, I was very impressed!

Since we had signed up for the early morning trip we got back around 2:00pm which was VERY nice! I think we all enjoyed the fact that we did zip lining in the morning (before it got too hot) and that we would still have the afternoon free!

We all came back and took well needed showers AND naps since we were exhausted! It was one of those “we could have kept sleeping all through the night” naps, but we did wake up and head out! Lorna wasn’t feeling well (she had a headache) so mom and I had a date and went a delicious Italian place for dinner. It had a really cute courtyard and was very good. We then walked to a place called Chocolate Fact for dessert only to find out it was closed! The hotel concierge LIED to us about the hours! Oh well, we just treated ourselves at Häagen-Dazs instead!

Hugs and kisses from the zip lining girls!

Inmates and Scamming Taxi Drivers!

We were able to sleep in today! Wahoo! Well, we did have to set an alarm since we didn’t want to miss breakfast! We were up around 10:00am and went downstairs for the breakfast (we have missed having breakfast included). We were impressed (they had a lot of options) but they did not have any pancakes, waffles or French toast! I think they made up for it with their banana chocolate chip muffins!

After a well needed breakfast we came upstairs to “rest” seeing as we had already had a rough day! After showering and getting ready we headed out to find my hostel! Luckily, our hotel is within walking distance! It looks very cute and seems like it will be one of the better ones! We looked in one of the rooms which had an ensuite bathroom and closet so I hope I get one of those! I also think I found the closest place to do laundry (I HATE finding a place to do laundry) and a mini mart so I feel much more comfortable already! We then headed to The Dukes for lunch and it was excellent! Mom sorta found this place (with the help of the concierge) so we think she redeemed herself from the AWFUL hole in the wall place.

We came back from The Dukes to see if we could get a taxi to the orphanage where I will spend my time volunteering! The concierge said the taxi was 250 baht for one hour and it would take about 20 minutes (one way) to the orphanage so we got the taxi at about 2:00pm and off we went! When we arrived at the orphanage it seemed like it was about 5 or 6 different buildings (almost like a campus). We stopped at the “office” and I tried to explain that I was going to be volunteering next week and I wanted to show my mom and Lorna the place. I don’t think the woman completely understood (although she did speak English) because she started explaining the application process, but nonetheless we asked for a tour!

The orphanage was probably the best I have seen. I think I will really enjoy volunteering there, although part of me wishes I had been put somewhere in more need (in terms of physical help and financial help). All the kids had clothes, toys AND shoes (which is HUGE) but I will see how next week goes! It was GREAT to be able to share it with mom and Lorna so now they can picture where I am!

Next stop was the women’s prison! I had read in my guidebook that you could get a massage at the women’s prison! Strange I know! The inmates that are due to be released within 6 months learn skills (massage, sewing, crafts, etc) so that when they are released they can find meaningful work. The profit they make off the massage goes to the women who gave the massage so she will have money to start a life after her release. I think the program is very interesting and there is also a massage shop that hires the woman after they have been released.

Anyway, we arrived at the prison at about 3:15pm and told the taxi driver we were all set for the day and we would find a different way home (there was no point in her waiting an hour for us). However, she seemed VERY confused and explained that we had booked her for a minimum of 3 hours. I explained (I sat in the front) that the hotel told us 250 baht for one hour (they said NOTHING about a minimum) and we had used her for a little more so we would give her extra if she told us how much. Then she started talking about how since we went 20 minutes outside of the city (to the orphanage) it was extra and we owed her 500 baht. NONE of this was making sense and I again told her what the hotel told us so I thought she said she was calling them. But I think she ended up calling her boss, so I started calling the hotel. I explained the situation and they spoke with her. By then it was about 3:30pm so I told mom we should give her an hour and a half’s pay and not waste any more time. When she got off the phone with our hotel she said she was confused and didn’t understand why the hotel would tell us that. I said I didn’t understand either but gave her the money for the hour and a half (20 minutes of which was spent sitting in her car!), thanked her and left! I do feel bad if what she is saying IS true and the hotel messed up (although two different people told us 250 baht and NOTHING about a minimum) but I figured if she felt the need she could sort it out with the hotel since we paid her what we were told.

Enough of that! Anyway we entered the massage place and the receptionist was VERY rude and told us we would wait about 20 minutes for a foot massage (NONE of us like Thai massages!) We waited and then the three of us sat down in the massage room. Mom and I went first because Lorna’s masseuse was finishing up a Thai massage, but soon into the massage Lorna said the smell of the oil they used (it was like Vic’s vapor rub) was giving her a headache (I didn’t blame her!) so she was going to go for a walk.

The massage was pretty good, although I find the “leg” rub painful and it reminds me of the physical therapy I use to get on my shin splints! Not ok! But overall it was pretty good AND the inmates didn’t murder any of us (ok ok, not funny).

We left and took a tuk-tuk back to our hotel for a quick rest! We checked out the free food we get since my mom is the BEST and booked us a room on the club level floor! Although, we aren’t THAT impressed with the food (it’s some weird stuff) but we always enjoy checking it out!

Our plan was to do some shopping, eat around the hotel and do some more shopping. BUT we showed up at the night market and it wasn’t really open yet. It was like a ghost town! So instead we stopped at a restaurant right by our hotel (I think it was called The Sports Bar) which was excellent and had a great view of the night market below.

We left dinner and started shopping! We were actually VERY successful! I can’t tell you what I got (Stephen McGunnigal Valentine’s Day..) but we were all very successful and I thought mom and Lorna did an EXCELLENT job bargaining!

The most fun we had bargaining was a purse that Lorna wanted that was VERY overpriced and mom and I double teamed the man and got it (probably still overpriced but Lorna is happy!)

The BEST snag of the night were these HOT sweatpant type things we got for zip lining and elephant riding. Both activities recommend we wear pants, but the only pants we brought are heavy jeans (and that isn’t going to work). So the three of us have matching pants and I can’t wait to post pictures!

We ended our night with the pants (because obviously we could NOT top that) and came back to the hotel to pack for zip lining tomorrow! Woo hoo!

Hugs and kisses from Chiang Mai inmates and scamming taxi drivers.

Hello Home For The Next Month!

We were up pretty early (7:00am) but hey we have had a lot worse! We checked out and said goodbye to Phuket. This driver took a MUCH better road and I did not feel carsick at all which was great!

There was a HUGE line to get into the airport. Before even entering the check in area you had to scan your bags and go through a metal detector and there were two lines for the entire airport. Luckily we made it through with no problems and checked in. This time we were only THREE kilos over..woo hoo! Getting lighter by the day!

The airport was very old and confusing because there were TWO flights at the same gate. Luckily we got on the bus to take us to the airplane going to Chiang Mai and not Bangkok, but I have no idea why they double booked a gate! The flight was fine and we were picked up by the hotel when we landed in Chiang Mai.

The hotel is VERY modern but it’s really VERY nice. We were all STARVING and there is a Pizza Hut literally right next store (I LOVE it) so we stopped there for lunch!

We came back because we were ALL exhausted and Lorna and I took a WELL needed nap! My mom could NOT fall asleep but I did hear her take a shower so I was happy about that! She woke us up at 5:30pm and Lorna and I couldn’t believe we had slept that long!

We headed out to the Sunday Night Market and stopped for dinner on the way. We weren’t in a very busy area so we stopped at one of the first restaurants we saw. We also had a map that said this restaurant had western food (a plus!). However, we were ALL disappointed! The highlight was that a transvestite waited on us. We all got breakfast (pancakes and French toast) and it was really just gross. We vow (from now on) to RESEARCH before we leave for dinner.

We ended up at the Sunday night market and it was PACKED. There were so many people that you could barely move. We couldn’t even wake at our own pace but rather just moving as the crowd moved. We didn’t really see anything we liked and I don’t think we enjoyed the crowds so we decided to head back to the hotel!

Hugs and kisses from my home for the next month!

Poolside

I don’t think I woke up until 11:00am and it was a BEAUTIFUL THING! I honestly don’t think I have slept in that late in three months and if you know me you KNOW I love sleeping in!

We all had some breakfast and spent the day poolside (as every day should be). It was VERY hot in the sun so I think I dipped in the pool about every 5 minutes! Lorna had brought me over the latest magazines so it was GREAT to catch up on everything I was missing in the U.S!

We were all relaxing by the pool when all of a sudden these two couples get in a HUGE argument (I think they had British accents). One couple was mad at the other for taking their pool chairs (they were all vacationing together) but I think one couple had upgraded to our wing and the other couple was at the regular hotel (and they aren’t suppose to use our pool) and it was SO awkward to witness! It made me really appreciate my friends and how they wouldn’t start yelling at me because I stole their pool chair! Mom saw them later on all hanging out so luckily they moved on but it was really sad.

Lorna and I also tried the swim up bar and got banana smoothies but I did not enjoy it! Well the smoothie was ok (I wanted strawberry but they didn’t have any) but the bar stools were very uncomfortable (not soft at all) and too far away from the bar! I had always wanted to stay in a place with a swim up bar but I was not that impressed!

As it became late afternoon Lorna and I went to do some laundry and our quarters worked again! Wahoo! Luckily between the three of us we had enough quarters to do the three loads we needed to!

We all showered and debated about whether or not to go to sunset, but decided against it! We would have to get a cab and it was a bit of a drive to the place everyone recommended (about 45 minutes) and we were looking forward to a relaxing night. We decided we would go to the Hard Rock Café (I think it is my mom’s new mission to go to a Hard Rock café everywhere we go!) It was nice to have a good meal! We left to head to the mall area to walk around for a bit and ended up at Swenson’s for an ice cream. The last time we had gone to Swenson’s (our first night in Bangkok) Lorna had been half asleep so this time was much better!

We then came back to the hotel so I could get ready for my hot skype date with Steve! Mom and Lorna got to wave to him which was nice! We finished packing so we can go to Chiang Mai tomorrow! Woo hoo!

Hugs and kisses from our last day in Phuket!

Scuba Fun!

I was actually very nervous when I woke up this morning! I think my nervousness had to do more with the unexpected. While I had been diving before, I had never been on a diving “trip” and really had no idea what it would be like!

I was up around 6:30am and got myself ready while my two lazy guests got to keep sleeping! I was picked up around 7:30ish by the diving van filled with other divers. We made two more stops before driving to the pier. I was VERY tired so fell in and out of sleep but I think the pier was about 30-45 minutes away!

When we arrived at the pier we got on this little bus thing that took us to the end of the pier (which was quite long) and then got on our boat! The first floor of the boat had two bathrooms, a room that was the “dry” room (it was closed off) and the scuba diving part (where we would get ready and jump). The top floor had a place for us to sit and a little area that served food.

When we got there we all sat up top and met who we would be diving with! I was diving with Eric (very cute..but don’t worry Steve he was married) from Sweden! I told him how I was very nervous and he reassured me it would be fine! We went over the first dive site and hand signals etc. and then I had the rest of the 2.5 hour boat ride to relax. They did serve breakfast although it wasn’t too much so I was glad I had brought a lot of snacks!

I think I fell asleep for a bit because Eric asked if I had a nice sleep and said I should start getting ready. It was SO nice to have someone do ALL the work for me (I really am such a princess!) I knew scuba diving would be like skiing (SO much work but so worth it when you are doing it) but he had prepared everything. I remember when I was getting certified I hated figure out the dive beforehand (how deep we could go, how long we could stay down there, etc.) AND carrying all the equipment (weight belts and tanks were the WORST!)

I got on my wetsuit which was SO nice compared to the full length ones (with booties and a head covering) I had to use at home! This one just kept my core warm! Next thing I knew I was jumping in the water! I had never done the “stride walk” off the boat but I managed to end up in the water in one piece so I consider it successful!

I was VERY nervous about breathing with the regulator since I struggled with that the MOST in scuba class. When I was in scuba class we were in 4 feet of water practicing breathing with the regular and I would always stand up coughing because it was such a weird feeling. I think the best scuba divers are the ones who DON’T swim because it doesn’t feel so foreign. Luckily after a few breaths I felt comfortable, but what I did struggle with was equalizing my ears. My mom is a scuba dropout because she could never clear her ears (how embarrassing!) We started our descent but I had to tell him right away I was experiencing A LOT of pain (luckily I remember the signal) so we came up a bit to start it again. Now I know I really need to take my descent slow and stop a lot to equalize my ears.

The dive was awesome and I loved it! I expected the water to be a lot clearer but since Phuket had so much rain yesterday they did say it affected the visibility. I also was talking to other divers who said Australia has VERY clear water but not a lot of marine life while Thailand has GREAT marine life but not the clearest water! It was still amazing and so cool to see all the fish! My favorite part was seeing the “Nemo” fish. They looked JUST like the ones in finding Nemo and lived in the same type of plant as the movie.

After the first dive we had a little bit of time to rest and eat some fresh fruit before the second dive. It was very similar to the first but I was definitely feeling more comfortable diving.

We then had a bit of a break as we headed back to Phuket for a third and final dive. We had time for lunch and a rest. I thought lunch was pretty good and reminded me of the food I had in China. But, I made the mistake of eating something WAY too hot. I had to run downstairs with my mouth on fire and eyes burning and stuff a granola bar in my mouth. OUCH it hurt!

It was nice to talk to Eric about life and the world and cultural differences. I have met amazing people and I really enjoy learning about the world. He was telling me how the first baseball hat he owned (in Sweden) was the Boston Bruins which made me laugh!

I explained to him the rivalry between the Sox and Yankees, how diving in Boston is AWFUL and things like that. I also had some time to meet other people on the boat. There was a family from Denmark, a couple from Australia, a couple from Arizona and a father and son from Australia. It was a nice small group so we had plenty of room!

I would have been happy with two dives but I did enjoy the third dive because I was becoming much more comfortable! The third dive was different in that it was a wall dive so we swam next to everything rather than over it. Throughout our dives we saw a lot of fish, sea snakes and a shark (harmless) which was awesome!

The only time I was scared was on this wall dive. It seemed like we were swimming up to the “end of the world” which ended up being a cave, but it was PITCH black and I couldn’t find Eric (he ended up being right above me but in my blind spot). Other than that I felt very comfortable and I was SO happy I had a private guide. It was nice to be able to take my time descending (I still had trouble equalizing but was able to take my time) AND take my time diving! Unfortunately, I have picked up another expensive hobby! I am already wanting to research the next place I might want to dive!

I was exhausted when we were finished! We got off the boat and took the little bus back to our diving bus and then back to the hotel. I took a WELL needed shower and then we headed out to dinner. I had told mom and Lorna I didn’t care WHERE we ate..I just didn’t want to be responsible for getting us there. And where did they take me? PIZZA HUT! Aren’t they the best? I have now been to a Pizza Hut in China, Vietnam and Thailand. Quite an accomplishment if you ask me! It was delicious!

We then decided we were going to stay up late to check out the party scene. I had been talking to my new scuba friends who said how they heard Bangla Road (the road with all the bars) didn’t start happening until at least 12:00am. So needless to say we had a lot of time to kill! We walked around the big mall complex and ended up at the little market area downstairs. Lorna and mom got foot massages and I got a pedicure!

Afterward we came back to the hotel and my initial plan was to blog but I ended up falling asleep! I was SO exhausted and sore from diving! I felt silly taking a “nap” from 11:00pm-12:00am but hey I couldn’t help it!

We left our hotel around 12:15am and walked about 10 minutes to Bangla Road. Everywhere was happening and it seemed like the whole island was hanging out here! We walked through the bars and there were a lot of girls dancing on them, but I wasn’t ALL that impressed. I was hoping to show them what I saw in Siem Reap but we didn’t really see any of that!

I thought our people watching was a bust and I was bummed because I had missed out on some good SLEEPING! Oh well it was worth a shot!

Hugs and kisses from a scuba diving Julie!